Personality Is Your Personal-Reality.
" Beauty captures your attention, personality captures your heart."
A picture is worth a thousand words, as we can visualise in above picture that magic happens outside your comfort zone.
Being a pleasant personality is as vital as creating peace with your inner-self.
"He/she has a great personality."
" Everyone in the gathering was blown off by his charismatic personality."
We all commonly come across such statements where the emphasis is on ' personality.'
What is this PERSONALITY after all??
The personal-reality of a person is his/ her personality indeed.
'Personal- reality' means how that person thinks,how he feels, how he behaves, how he socialises,how is he with himself. Whole lot of these factors contribute in making of a pleasant or an unpleasant personality.
Random words of praise and appreciation can make anyone's day more brighter and happier and these elating moments happen quite often with the people with a pleasant personality.
How to become the one to whom people look upto as an inspiration,an ideal and the one who can influence the whole mankind in a positive way?
Reasearch shows that daily we create 65000 to 70000 thoughts and surprisingly 90 % of these thoughts are similar to the other days. Good gracious!!!!!! Such a waste of our thinking capacities!!
Most of us ,daily sleep on same side of bed, same clothing style, same road to our work place, same set of people we meet, same job, same people pressing our emotional triggers and arousing the same feelings.
If same things are happening daily how can we expect different results? If we want to carve a new personality ,the charismatic and pleasant one ,then we have to work upon changing our personal-reality.
Why we don't realise this monotony of our routines? And even if we realise why don't we try to break this monotony? We all brood over this monotony but still don't want to push ourselves out of it because we are slave to our routines, our comfort zones.
A comfort zone is a beautiful place where we feel super easy but remember one thing, nothing grows in this place of comfort zone .
Always bear one thing in mind that everything you have ever wanted or dreamt of, is one step outside your comfort zone.
Though we can't change everything like our job , and we shouldn't even try to change everything, but few things we should certainly change. For example , change the road you take to your office, explore some new roads, listen to a completely different music or a song other than your regular choice, experiment with your dressing style , take your tea at a different tuck shop, visit a new grocery store, exchange duties with your partner for household chores, the list can go infinite.
The Idea is to give a chance to your neurons ( brain cells) to make some new neural pathways and to keep you active, young and vibrant. So keep your learning modes on.
With all these changes on regular basis ,you truly feel refreshed and something new starts emerging out of your ownself and hence the makeover of your personality , the new personal-reality.
While going through this makeover just remember, "satisfy your soul, not the society." Means whatever you do, should be targeted for your self-growth, but not to impress others or please others.
You will start feeling the following changes in your own aura gradually...
- you will naturally smile more
- more soothed out nerves of yours
-more confident
- humble
- others will feel good in your company
- optimistic
- healthy lifestyle
- great sense of humor
- smartly dressed up
A picture is worth a thousand words, as we can visualise in above picture that magic happens outside your comfort zone." Transformation begins when you step out of your comfort zone."
Wishing everyone happy transformation !!
